Drogenfund in Wohnung mit 3 Kindern?
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Ich versuche mich so kurz wie möglich zu fassen.
Im März diesen Jahres hatten wir Besuch von der Polizei, die 28,9 Gramm Marihuana bei uns gefunden hat. Mein Mann und ich konsumieren beide, jedoch immer so, dass einer von uns nüchtern ist. Die Polizei hat diesen Vorfall natürlich an das Jugendamt gemeldet. Diese kamen im April das erste Mal zu uns und sagten, dass jetzt nichts passieren würde, erst, wenn es nochmal eine Meldung geben sollte. Im August waren sie dann das zweite mal bei uns und fragten nach einem Drogentest. Wir haben Ihnen gesagt, dass mein Mann zur Drogenberatung geht und das wohl alles früher oder später darüber laufen wird, damit war der Besuch dann auch wieder vorbei. Gerade eben stand das Jugendamt dann zum dritten Mal vor der Tür, kam aber von sich aus nicht in die Wohnung, weil die komplette Familie krank ist.
Die Frage ist nun, was droht uns? Nehmen Sie uns die Kinder weg, nur weil wir uns abends mal einen rauchen wenn die Kinder im Bett liegen? Wie gesagt, es ist immer einer von uns nüchtern.
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The limit for “small quantity” is not determined in the grass, but how much THC is actually contained. Modern breeding produkets come to the range of 10%. From 0.045 g of pure THC it will certainly come to charge, you might have been more than 30 times over it.
And the drug addiction/drug use of parents is always an alarm for potential child welfare. I am not sure that all consumers/scientists are responsible for education, but the ability to react becomes a problem. Therefore, the Youth Office will have an eye on you and you, if necessary. offer help for education. And if they see a danger to the children, the children go to a foreign shelter. And that is also true because the aids must intervene before damage occurs.
I realize that such a spooky-paternalistic protection system for the children is disturbing you. It may save their lives. The more cooperative you are, the better it is. The more resistance you build up, the more control will be the result, and the more critical will be assessed noticeable findings.
Seriously, I can’t. And I don’t think you smoke one until they’re kids in bed and they’re always clear. Especially since your husband doesn’t need drug advice if there is no excessive consumption.
What’s your role models? The first time the police were with you, I wouldn’t have taken more. But now make a pity. Poor kids. Then you can soon visit her at home and explain “Mama and Papa were the grass more important..sorry.”
Drugs and children have nothing to do with each other.
What you think and what you don’t care about me. Still, I don’t need to teach any Karens who think a little marijuana is the toughest drug in the world.
To drug counseling, my husband is only going there to get a milder judgment.
If I’m a car, so that you can open your eyes, what you’re making a crap, I’d like to do that.
Marijuana is still a drug, there are more dangerous, yes, but it prevents you from fulfilling your task as parents properly. And that should always be the top priority if you have children.
And it must have been a good thing if a judgement is expected.
I can only hope for your children that they will be taken away from you, for as unintentional as you are, and as little as you are worthy of your children, that you will not even consider listening to the cried. You just don’t deserve her.
Someone else is better.
you’re drug addiction and don’t even notice in your search. so you’re telling a weak mind. Of course, the children get that something doesn’t work out with you and that it gets worse from month to month.
You asked the question to strangers…if you don’t get the answers, ask someone else to give you the answer you want to hear.
Oh, someone who would be cut.
And, of course, a wild person has the most idea of our lives. Do yourself a favor and don’t give you that shit. Good evening.
And yes, it’s always the same. There I can give you a comb. My parents pulled one through this weekend. Whenever we were in bed. Well, probably.
So stop. You don’t know what you’re doing when you’re on it.
And you’re tricking, though you’ve been counted three times, crying around now. You should have just stopped if your children were dear to you and to prove to the youth office that you have. But no.
We’re not your parents. You can see how little Ahnunf you actually have of life. You’re all over a comb without knowing them.
“It gives parents who are actually relaxed…” but yes, you speak of other totally fictional claws.
And yes, that we have nothing to do with my parents.
Did I say any word that I’m getting more relaxed? And as I said, my children have never heard of it
My parents weren’t constantly cried, but this time when they were was terrifying for me. And if you are not more relaxed than without, then as parents you definitely do something wrong.
And that’s because of limits. Yes, they all say that until they crash and finally say “upps, I didn’t even notice.
I’m still in my head, just because I know Meike’s limits. It’s nothing else with the alcohol. If you don’t know your border, you’ll crash. You know her, you’re still yourself.
You can’t compare one with the other. If your parents have been constantly accustomed, then it does not necessarily mean that others do so. However, there are also actually parents who become more relaxed after the sometimes stressful everyday life with children.
Unfortunately, I have some experience with cuddling parents and you can’t do it exactly. And that you still think clearly in your mind, proves how far from the truth you really are
Apparently you’ve smoked at least one yourself to judge it at all. Who says I’m not clear enough to take care of my children even after that? I don’t get used to it like some others. Once again, the best example is that you should just shut up if you have no idea of all.
You may believe it or not.
I guess you’ll get an overall impression of your family – especially the children – and then make a decision.
If you don’t stop drug use, children will come home for short or long. you should let yourself in with your search problem for detoxification and withdrawal therapy in a rehabilitation clinic.
There is no addiction. If I want, I can stop at any time without having any withdrawal symptoms. There is too little consumption for a real addiction.
Then stop!!!!
1.For your children. 2. But even against alcohol and cigarettes, many say something,Conscientious wise
but the young lady
Right, children are always sleeping through when the sibling’s child is roaring with pain. All right.
And so too, children will never wake up at night, have bad dreams or anything else. Jaaaa, that’s right.
Then the other kids are still sleeping. How was that thinking? I guess the box thinks better here.
Oh, wei, stop crying, that’s better thinking.
Child wakes up, has severe pain. One has a spicy, as agreed. The “sober” has to be with child and sick house, while cried parent stays to me the rest of the kids at home.
as if you still have control over it.
At that time no one has smoked because the children didn’t even sleep.
So the scenario was already there? One had to blame us sick house, and the other one remains, because he didn’t expect a child to go to the hospital, with the rest of the children at home.
Great.
These scenarios were all there. If my children lie in bed and sleep, they sleep too. If one of us isn’t there, the other logically can’t go out to smoke as soon as the kids are in bed. None of the children are ever exposed alone or any danger.
Apart from that, even if you change with the noise that a child has to go to the hospital, the other is still unable to provide the two others
It is legalized because there is no more money for tracking than crime, not because it is harmless.
My parents were a box, and they also said it was only occasionally. And believe me, it wasn’t nice to see the parents like that when they were so different than usual. And kids get this.
Why? Because you want it? Marijuana will not be legalized without reason as the only current illegal drug. As soon as it’s done, Sau doesn’t say anything about it anymore.
The Youth Office is primarily concerned with the children being well. So they will first of all see if the children are saved or if they show signs that they are afraid of you. They will probably also question other references, such as teachers or educators (if the children are still in kindergarten) whether the children are in any way susceptible. If everything is okay, they will probably not take away the children (100% can’t be said. The children can also show behavioral vulnerabilities regardless of your consumption, or expert opinions can be negatively interpreted)
Will the time that marijuana is finally legalized so that authorities can take care of more important things. In other places, the parents accumulate and beat each other’s heads and yet the children often remain in the family forever.
PS: Knappe 29 grams are quite a lot. Make sure you stay under 6 grams in the future. Then there are not such serious consequences.
The obligation for the kindergarten was already signed at the first visit in April. The kindergarten has also confirmed that my children do not show any deception. It’s better for my children than many others where parents don’t smoke.
Thank you for your helpful answer, the only helpful ones here.
I grew up with parents who used to cried and would never do that to my children to see it. I hope it will never be legalized without a prescription.
If your husband only goes to drug counseling because he then expects a milder judgment, that is not so thoughtful.
Yeah, it’s gonna go out to take your kids away. No one believes that you only consume drugs when the children are in bed. And then only alternately?!
I’m sorry for the kids. But they’re not good at you. Sad. And you have to ask something like that in a forum.
In any case, you are listed at the Youth Office.
Criminal proceedings for the drug discovery will await you anyway.
You can only shake your head…
And you know my family situation to give you a picture of whether our children are good at us? My children don’t have anything here. I didn’t want any opinions of any Karens who think they’re the perfect mothers.
This is this double moral again. If I sit down every night and drink a glass of champagne in front of my children, there’s no human being to say anything.
You don’t even look for what’s missing to your children. they lack their reasonably functioning parents who are drug-free.
that’s not, but what you’ve described is enough. you always look that one is clear in your head? And what’s the other one doing? Does he hide in front of the child so they can’t get his condition? for children it is also burdensome if always a parent is “comic on it”. They never know when they can rely on you.
except ZWEI parental parts that are always clear in mind.
because after 1 glass one is still clear in the head. You can not compare 1 glass of champagne with drug use (Also if you harmed it and title it only as a light drug. It’s enough for the mind to be misled. If you compare it with alcohol then someone who gets so cleansed that he doesn’t get any more mentally)
A glass of champagne and drugs is also a huge difference. Of course, you can tell you that it’s not bad anymore. The couple of drugs, others do that too…
You can’t just stop it now. you are irresponsible and unable to care for the needs of your children. you are looking for the needs of your children. that’s what you don’t sneak. This is really stupid for you
You don’t think you’re powerful stupid and absolutely have no idea, but you have to give your stupid must. If I were addicted, I couldn’t just stop at any time.
you’re not sneaking, are you? you are addicted and are in treatment. let yourself in and give the children in loving and above all responsible hands. of which you lack everything.
Drug addiction because we sometimes smoke that I don’t laugh. So everyone who drinks something is an alcoholic?
children have lost nix in households of drug addicts like you. they should be pulled out urgently. you lack the spiritual maturity and the iq to understand and how to behave as parents
No, drug-free parents are not perfect. But you’re gonna give it up.
Of course, because drug-free parents are also the perfect ones. Makes a lot of sense. Nobody talked about Suxht here. If I want, I can stop at any time. But why? Because it doesn’t like any karen again?
And that shows me again, it’ll be necessary to introduce a “parent driver’s license”. It must not be allowed to put children in this world.
Sorry, but please don’t give the children away from you, obviously you’re not ready for responsibility for a long time and don’t want to.
I hope that the Youth Office will not ignore and act again!
If I don’t want responsibility and my children, I wouldn’t have children. You know yourself, don’t you? My kids are great. You don’t have anything to do with us. The fact that I smoke myself as a mother has absolutely nothing to do with my children and does not question my mother qualities. I have not become a worse mother.
That’s right, because everyone has only children because he wants them or wants them to…
Others have nothing to do with me.
Right, you can’t judge it. Then why do you say this in your comment?
No, but you say that if you didn’t want to be responsible, you wouldn’t have children.
How many children have probably been created by a “upps, stop has happened”. Then it has nothing to do with “I wanted to have the responsibility”.
I can’t judge if this is the case with you.
And you can judge if I wanted my children or not? To calm you down, my children are and remain absolute wish children.