Do I have to do what they say?
So the carers from the assisted living facility and my legal guardian say that I will have no other choice than to work in the protected labor market for the first time in order to prove to the insurance companies, doctors, etc. that I am somewhat fit to work.
Then maybe I would be offered sheltered training, and rehabilitation and everything, and then I would have a chance to do an apprenticeship and later work in the primary labor market.
They say I have no chance of looking for work myself, simply because no employer would hire me because they would see that I was in need of care and unable to work.
Are they right? Should I just do a sheltered apprenticeship because that's my only chance?
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Your counselors are saying this for a good reason and because they know what's going on. They want to help you, not harm you.
So it makes sense to trust their opinion.
I'm afraid that I'll end up doing a fake apprenticeship and still end up with nothing, but still be considered employable.
You don't seem to be able to work in the primary labor market right now.
So I wouldn't do that either.
Do I have a choice?
Ach, du bist das wieder.
Ich sag es dir nur noch einmal:
Entscheide dich und heule uns nicht die Ohren voll.
Wieso einfach nicht arbeiten? Was bringt denn so eine Reha-Ausbildung mal ehrlich?
Wenn ich nicht arbeiten kann, warum nicht aufgeben?
That's exactly why you've been assigned a supervisor. Because they don't trust you to make this decision yourself.
And that's perfectly fine if you read your "posts" here.
Wieso soll ich dann eien Ausbildung machen? Verstehe ich nicht.
You CAN'T complete a normal on-the-job training program. That much has been made clear to you.
You'll have to ask the supervisors yourself. But they probably don't want to hear anything more from you either.
And then what? Why do they promise me things they can't keep?
Du bist immer sofort mit dabei, was du alles NICHT willst. Mach doch einfach mal das, was man von dir verlangt.
OK, but what exactly is the benefit of such training?
Even though this is a bitter pill to swallow, your supervisors are unfortunately not wrong. Even if it seems as if they're all conspiring against you, it's entirely well-intentioned.
Your supervisors have the necessary experience and will do everything they can to support you in achieving what you are truly capable of.
If you find it difficult to trust their judgment, always remember that none of them has an interest in putting you down. For whatever reason?
Be glad that you can continue your journey with protection, and don't lose heart. Every step, no matter how small, will move you forward. Good luck!
But what is the use of such protected training?
Do you think that gives you a chance in the primary job market?
Of course. Look at it this way: If you follow the entire path as suggested and really nail it one step at a time, you'd have my full respect as an employer. Proving that you can compete in the top league (primary job market), especially with your resume, would be a tremendous achievement.
Was wenn ich einfach weiterhin so mache wie bisher?
I think you should listen to your supervisors.
But is sheltered training really any good in the primary labor market?
Es geht darum, daß Du angemessen gefördert wirst. Und da kennen Deine Betreuer sich besser aus als ich.
Ich leide jeden Tag ohne Ende.
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Honestly, I'm so severely autistic that I'm afraid that's my only option.
Oh – and living under care forever is more desirable for you?
You can't force me.
They just want to get rid of me.
Then I'm considered fit for work if I do that, but I don't have any training, because protected training is as useful as toilet paper.
I know their tricks, the tricks of the IV insurance.
Do you think discussing things here will help you? They know better than you what's good for you.
Du denkst Betreuer sind allwissende Götter?
Ich vertraue ihnen nicht.
Listen to your supervisors!
Warum nicht aufgeben?
Unfortunately, I can't comment on that. As I said, your supervisors know more about this than I do!
I'm afraid that I'll end up doing a fake apprenticeship and still end up with nothing, but still be considered employable.
This is a typical trick used by insurance companies to avoid paying anything (Swiss IV pension)