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Tand0r
1 year ago

Yes, he may, and this is common at your age. I’m sure the parents of many of your friends do.

Most of all, he’ll be about who you write.

Chats with classmates will not interest him big, chats with people you only know online more.

You may also be able to convince him not to read certain chats when he knows the chat partner, he is your age, and has already been at your home.

I’d just…

You don’t even laugh at the door when he/she is there, what we are discussing at school you won’t get along, why do you have to read the chats?

Nordlicht979
1 year ago

Probably he doesn’t trust you and is worried. As part of his care for you he reads your chats. If he’s just curious, his behavior isn’t okay.

Nordlicht979
1 year ago
Reply to  Jeremy Edberg

Then I would write to your chat partner: “Attention, my father cannot slow his curiosity and read with. Do you have any curious parents?”

As well:

“So because my father is so curious, I don’t trust him either. Apparently, he doesn’t want to trust him.”

bellahamsti
1 year ago

Yeah, I know it’s really annoying, but he’s right. This is because he has a supervisory duty, and unfortunately this also applies digitally.

But talk to your father and you can make up that he only does it with you or something

LG

bellahamsti
1 year ago
Reply to  Jeremy Edberg

Imagine that you make the vl together once a week and ask if he can let you look in.

bellahamsti
1 year ago

Or talk to your father. If that doesn’t help and he keeps acting like this, you should go to another person again. Vl a trust teacher or relative.

bellahamsti
1 year ago

Vl should talk to a trusted person about it.

Kitty009
1 year ago

Yes think that is allowed, but I also think that everyone has a privacy

Kitty009
1 year ago
Reply to  Jeremy Edberg

When I was your age, my parents never searched my phone or looked through chats. I don’t understand he wants to take your phone away just because of a chat history?

bellahamsti
1 year ago
Reply to  Jeremy Edberg

Of course it’s not okay. But he was also disappointed that he knew nothing about it or something. And of course this must be digested by a father

ErsterSchnee
1 year ago

Then he’ll probably take the whole phone right away. And that’s right.

Kitty009
1 year ago

As I see, your father just comes into your phone as if you’re applying a secure password that no one knows so he definitely doesn’t come to your phone anymore (:

bellahamsti
1 year ago

Oh, but that’s not okay anyway

bellahamsti
1 year ago

Yes, that would also be a possibility

Kitty009
1 year ago

Oh, I feel with you and you can’t do anything about it. I don’t know your father, but maybe if you try to explain it to him, what’s exactly on it?

Artus01
1 year ago

Short and short: Yes, he can.

Basically, he would have to.

Rubezahl2000
1 year ago

There are arguments for it and against, but in the end, your father is always on the longer lever and can enforce what he thinks right.

As long as you’re under 18J, you can’t change it.

ErsterSchnee
1 year ago

Yes, that’s allowed. And under certain circumstances, he is even obliged to do so.

If you don’t mind, you can pay your smartphone and contract/prepaid yourself.

ErsterSchnee
1 year ago
Reply to  Jeremy Edberg

You also use your credit yourself… 🙄

ErsterSchnee
1 year ago

He’s right. What does he buy you a phone if you’re not accessible?