Can my stepfather take my room away from me?
Hey guys, my stepdad moved in with us a few months ago. At first everything was going well until he said that he would now use my closet and that I should put my clothes in my suitcase. Of course it hurt me but I was too shy to fight back. Now he wants my own room because he doesn't like sleeping in the living room.
If I give him my room now, does that mean I have to sleep in the living room? What can I do and is he allowed to do that?
(2 votes)
Loading...
I guess your mother married a big hole. Where love falls…
I think that you should clean your room very disproportionately. It’s your room and you were there before your stepfather. He’s supposed to be in the marital bedroom.
If your mother doesn’t want to help or help you, consider asking for help with the Youth Office.
You could also trust your real father.
My mother is also for keeping my room but he’s shaking right out when she says her opinion.
Then your mother has to get through. It’s her apartment. You two were in front of the stepfather.
Show her the opinions here from the forum.
And if the stepfather should get to you by hand, go to the youth office or seek advice from the police. There you will definitely help.
Sure.
I’m a mother myself, and I don’t understand that.
he is not handy to me or my mother but many thanks for the tipp ≥
You have to talk to each other urgently, your mother should also be there:
I don’t think you should give up your room.
It wasn’t right that you had to clear your closet.
You have to find another solution:
You have to add furniture, maybe you need a bigger apartment, but your mother and stepfather have to worry about it.
Please find the conversation with them soon:
It’s not good if you eat your sadness in you.
I wish you all the best. 🍀
My mother is also for that I keep my room but he shaves right out when she says she also lives in a two room apartment because there was no problem at that time because she was sleeping in the living room. but many thanks to
You need a bigger apartment. 2 rooms are too small.
I’d be very interested in how the matter went out. Did you talk to each other? And has a solution found for your problem?
That would interest me. Denise sends cordial greetings from Düsseldorf x:”)
Maybe you should talk to your mother about it
My mother is also for keeping my room but he’s shaking right out when she says her opinion.
Get some help, e.g. from a mediator.
He can’t take anything away from you and not your room. Although you do not have a statutory right to your own room, you have the legal right to privacy. So your own, quiet resort. And this is the nursery.
Of course he can’t.
What does your mother say?
How does he get such an idea
my mother is also, however, he says that I have already become “big” (at 16) and that he has back pain with him, although my mother has specially made our neck sofa.
Why is your mother missing?
my mother is totally opposed to it, however, every time she says what he does not agree with, he quickly becomes aggressive and mixes his family.
Oha, then your mother needs help, where is the rest of your relatives?
red with the Youth Office or your mother
my mother is totally opposed
What? That you should give up your room?
if your mother agrees to that, he may. you have no claim to your own room
I guess there’s a conversation with your mother first. He can’t spread out as he likes, at least one would think.
Why doesn’t he sleep with your mother in the bedroom?
we are currently living in a two-room apartment for which reason they have no bedrooms
How old are you? If it doesn’t, turn to the Youth Office. What does your father say?
I am 16 and my mother is totally against it has no knt with my paternal father
Go to the youth office.
Why doesn’t he sleep with your mother?
These rights and duties have stepfathers and stepmothers.
https://www.1-2-family.de/familieleben/patchworkfamilie-recht-as-stiefvater/
Take care of your mother, she’ll surely support you, you have a right to your privacy.
but she supports me every time she expresses her opinion and it doesn’t fit him he mixes his family.
and many thanks to that I didn’t know
do not understand your mother..
My mother is totally opposed.
and where is your mother?
She’s totally opposed.