As a little brother, am I allowed to interfere with my big sister?
I'm 15 years old and live with my siblings and my mother. My parents are separated, and my father lives with my grandparents. Every time I talk to him on the phone, he asks me if my older sister (16) has a boyfriend.
My grandpa and dad are very strict about this and don't want her to have the wrong boyfriend who isn't good for her. I once lent my sister my laptop for a week because she didn't have a cell phone at the time. She logged onto Snapchat and when I got my laptop back I saw a message from a boy. She forgot to log off. Then I saw him send a naked picture of himself as he arrived. And so did she. That shocked me because I thought my sister would be the last person to do something like that. And that didn't shock me because it was just one boy but three boys she did it with (at the same time). Of course I was also shocked to see my sister like that. I reported it to my mom straight away but she wasn't interested because she does the same thing with other men. I don't know if I should tell my dad about my sister because that's not okay.
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Hmm, yes “that’s not possible” – to interfere with this.
Your father wants, although he no longer lives with you in the household (he still has custody/ right of residence? Well, this is the case of parents to clarify this), knowing about the love life/ sex life of your 16-year-old sister.
Don’t you think he’s crossing a certain limit? Oh and what if he interferes with your personal love life in the future? You’re gonna step on your feet, you want to make some reservations or you want to prescribe anything else? I think you wouldn’t want to.
Your sister is 16. This is, from my perspective, very naive, and very naive of her, but she will have to learn to live and deal with it.
I won’t interfere in your place.
Or would you, if you had got a phone call from her “too bad” or “too bad” would have read her diary… also tell your father everything else? That’s not going.
Do you think your sister would interfere in your stuff? How would you like that?
Get out of her life as she keeps herself out of your life. She will make her experiences and see what’s good and what’s bad for her. She becomes a self-confident woman. If you remove all the stones and obstacles from the way and make everything a problem, then you have a woman who can’t, which is audible and is not able to, when hard comes to hard, that she can handle it and solve problems independently.
Neither your father, nor you go to what friends she has. The only thing your father should do is: if you have child clothing, my child, food, my child gets school education and is loved by my child. Everything else your father does not need to know and not do.
The only thing about you is you taking care of your own crap and maybe dealing with the rights of children and young people. Entering child rights in Google
I understand now that I won’t interfere with her. But if it really should happen that it is being exploited and these pictures land somewhere else it will be embarrassing and I live in a small town where I will be laughed out because my sister does that sounds exaggerated but these guys with whom she has written came out of my city and if he continues it then it will be bad. For them too.
I strongly assume you’re a troll (clearly, the mother doesn’t care, and does exactly the same, surely it is).
If it were true, you just wouldn’t mind. You can talk to siblings, at the same level, but interfere implies that you want to give them any instructions. You can’t do that if you were older, siblings have no instructions to give.
So it doesn’t matter if my sister might be exploited or these pictures eventually land somewhere else. I don’t care if she has a friend or 1000 but it’s disrespectful to my father and maybe she’ll regret it because it’s very dangerous nowadays.
What is to be disrespectful to your father? This has nothing to do with him. Of course he can do something educationally, but with respect to him it has nothing to do at all.
I’ve already written what you can do as a brother. Just because you find more stuff doesn’t change my testimony.
What she regrets later doesn’t matter to anyone. Is her life, she has to live it and then come clear with the consequences. Of course, the parents should have an eye on it, but surely not the siblings.
And where did I invent something?
I asked if I should tell my father or not and don’t have to command me something you don’t know me and I don’t know you either
I would not make it exploited