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How would you react if someone confided in you that the person cuts themselves
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Listen to the person. To give the person the feeling that she can trust me and then you can best talk to this person in peace. ^^
I’ve had such a situation two times.
First time, I was in the 10th grade myself. I wasn’t really fit at that time. A friend of mine has come to me and only said she had been missing and no longer knows what to do. When I asked what she did, she showed me her poor and told me she knew how stupid it was, and she would be afraid that healeded her scars. I honestly didn’t know what to do, so I first looked at her arm, and I said that you need at least a clamp patch. She replied, didn’t you have that in your first aid set? I had and usually always have a first aid kit with everything necessary, because I am relatively often vulnerable. Since I still did not know what to do, I first disinfected the cuts, supplied with clamp patches and connected. When I just made the bandage, she started telling what happened and why. I only listened to her and then looked for her help.
At that time, I wasn’t sure if I reacted properly. But I would react the same way again.
The second time, one of my students gave me a letter and asked if I, who I read the letter, went to school psychologist with her, she doesn’t trust herself. The situation was more regulated by itself.
And I would always listen to someone who trusts me and then offer help together.
The most important thing is to take time and listen. I believe there are very different backgrounds that lead to such self-sufficient behavior.
As a trained “Mental Health First Aid” supporter, however, I also know the limit of my own resources. So it is for me to seek help with those concerned.
Listening to the person and being understandable because everything else is a wrong reaction
I would offer the person that she can talk to me at any time if the wish was there to talk “something about the soul”, but of course I wouldn’t be upset either. I’d just try to convey that I’m ready to help. For Ritzen is a sign for me that someone (with his or her) situation is overwhelmed, feels alone and sometimes excluded or something. And this is always very bad.
I’d ask the person why she’s hurting herself. On the other hand, I would also like to know why she is entrusted to herself more precisely now. After that, it was about how to help her somehow. If this happens, you can organize the necessary help together with the person. However, if the person refuses this, I will not take the effort to continue dealing with the subject of the person.
Since I myself belonged to those concerned, even though I had not suffered a relapse for a long time, I know that if you do not want to change from what you want, any help is pointless.
I would be ready for any request, for further assistance at any time, but if the person can’t do that, she shouldn’t be surprised if I would like to see her as little as possible on this subject in the times.
borrow an open ear and consider conversation therapy with his consent, (maybe together)
With the person off to the psychologist. It’s not normal and she needs help. I would help with conversations or as a companion to the psychologist
Try to help
ask why and hope that at some point the insight comes that there is no really good idea to do so
I’d tell her parents.
I don’t care. There you can spend weeks well and try to help – usually it doesn’t bring anything. If someone wants to disfigure, it’s his subject, not mine.
Okay, you know, the people don’t make it fun
There are also quite a lot of people who eat a madness or starve almost to death. Or take drugs, smoke or drink.
They do that out of free pieces; I don’t force them to do that. Then why should I accept them? I used years to help a victim. In the end, my aid was not implemented to the extent that it would have helped the victim. And it didn’t make me sleep well.
You don’t need any help.
That the person does not die
They need help, but it is the question of how far the aid must extend. In the case of usual diseases, surgery or accidents, it is clear that they all want to be healthy again and it is also clear that the necessary help is provided.
With those who don’t want to get help, it often seems to me enough pointless. Why should I stop anyone against his will torment himself? He’s coming to insight or not. Selection by Darwin.
So you say depressive don’t need any help because they want to die through their illness?
I’m a motherfucker, rubbing the mixture into his wounds.
I would ask her why she does it and listen to her. This is the most important thing.
Cancel contact
Why?
I had several times to do with the people who do so regularly and it never went well.
You have a great attitude to this topic:/
The user name suggests that you like to deal with such topics. Then I don’t have to worry.
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Oh, I didn’t know yet, thank you.
I’ve been confused when you mean. ^^
Helicoptereltern is a common term for people who try to protect their children about the dimensions.
Yes I mean folifax
What are you referring to?
He didn’t say that it was not good for the scratching. All people who have encountered me so far, who have scorched themselves, were, on the one hand, mostly anything but angels, and have dragged me so deeply into their problems that I would need the therapy afterwards.
Okay I think you should never give up
If there’s nothing, you can’t do anything. You just pull yourself down with it, so no thanks
And that’s why you want to give up
No, it’s always tried again and again, and it has brought nothing
But then it would not be better to help people