Cousin comes by with child and when child asks for me says “I’m not here” even though my car is there and I’m obviously there?
I live upstairs, and she rings my grandpa's doorbell. She was there for a while, and when she was about to leave, her daughter asks for me, and then she quickly says, "…I'm not here." Even though my car is parked there.
Grandpa then said, "Yes, she's there, but maybe she's still asleep." I didn't understand anything else.
I thought that was really stupid. When I hear something like that, it just confirms my feeling that she's not really interested in me, my cousin, and I think that's a shame. I just don't dare go down there because we're not that close, and she's not coming for me, but for Grandpa.
What do you all mean?
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You must go to her and tell her you’d like to have contact with her. How else is the relationship better? And if she doesn’t want any contact with you for any reason, that’s the case.
Just because there’s a car, someone’s not here yet.
Apparently, your cousin was ringing. If you don’t open the door after a while because you don’t dare to go down, the only logical conclusion was that you’re not here.
I mean, who’s expecting a cousin not to dare to open the door for relatives?
She’s never ringing with me and she’s never got her, she’s only ringing with my grandpa.
I also live in the village. If my car is there, I’m 99% there.
Maybe she thinks the same as you. I’d ring at her place with Grandpa because I’d be afraid to bother you. And if I visit my child, Grandpa, and you don’t come down the stairs, even though you heard me, I’d think “you don’t want to contact me.”
I simply treat such things according to the rule “who does not want it already has” .
What do you mean? I’m really busy because she’s coming over a lot of times.
I think I could just come down, but I just feel she doesn’t like me and I’m not welcome…. and this situation just confirms my feeling full.
I mean, that it’s going to pass by the most precious thing, anyone shouldn’t like me.