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lynnmary1987
10 months ago

Yeah.

But it doesn't happen. Such changes are rarely true or permanent or in the actual interest of the changer.

And sooner or later, it just crawls.

lynnmary1987
10 months ago
Reply to  slimlshady

In both cases. For it has not yet been determined whether what one feels "positive" is actually the same for the other person.

e.g. Hans meets Susie. Susie's a little chubby. Hans doesn't like this, and Susi is turning her diet and doing sports. Susie changes, decreases and is healthier.

It's positive, right? At least it looks like that for Hans and other people. In reality, Susie has insane stress, is just counting on calories and doesn't allow anything until it collapses and suffers from an eating disorder.

Still positive? Would she have done that without Hans to us his sayings that she was not liked to him, too?

That would be an example of a physical change. But it is equally applicable to psychological changes. Susie might not like Hans to meet his nerd friends so often.

bonez187erz420
10 months ago

And how… Before my last relationship, I was a sweet girl who liked to go to work, etc. Now I am the absolute opposite.

Levianthana
10 months ago

Well, maybe not, but yes, changes are possible 🙂

Levianthana
10 months ago
Reply to  slimlshady

I wanted to add that it can also be positive – for example, with me in the relationship is just that:)

Levianthana
10 months ago

No, I personally wouldn't be the way I am without the new relationship. Something maybe, but not to the extent. If the relationship doesn't hold, I'll change as a single again – but that doesn't have to be bad:)