Career first, relationship second?
I agree that you should pursue your career first and only then worry about relationships, am I right?
Because if you're very poor, have no money, maybe not even your own apartment, and generally can't do anything, you probably won't be a very interesting partner, right?
And many young people today are going through a phase that is very unstable and makes relationships very difficult.
Especially when no one is available to visit, for example, because of their living situation. And in general, if you don't have the money to do anything, is there no point?
Moving in together is also risky because you would be trapped, so to speak, because of finances.
So, am I right about this: career first, then love? And once you're firmly established in life, you can think about relationships again, right?
And well, people who don't have a career are just unlucky, but I still think you shouldn't date.
How do you see this?
I see that your view is wrong at the border to bullshit.
It is simply not a (practical) life experience behind it. People and the world do not work like that.
I’ll never have a partner for autism and poverty.
This is also more difficult with the practical life experience. I’ll take back bullshit and replace the expression by “sick.”
I only have hate left
No.
I don’t think you’re right. And at least with me and my environment it went at the same time.
How? If life is uncertain? Then how are you going to make a serious relationship?
And as I said, it will be a financial dependency.
You have to know what you want. Of course, this does not happen without risk or dependency. But if the partner or the partner is the right one, that’s not that bad.
If you want to make a career, you’ll get older.
I have no other choice because I’m too poor, and otherwise it’s just gonna be dependent on someone.
I don’t think so.
right, I am not able to work anyway, and will never have a partner for that.
Stupid stuff
Why stupid stuff?