Boarding fees?
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A while ago, I spoke to my 21-year-old child about the issue of board and lodging. My child finished their training last month and has been working full-time (around €1,800/month) since September 1st. I brought up the issue of board and lodging (around €230) again and was asked, "Why?" Can someone perhaps give me some good advice on how to explain it clearly and understandably? What are your experiences and opinions on this?
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After training, this is not at all undiscussible for me.
Maintenance is terminated, either the child participates in the rental and household costs, or it is withdrawn. (If I ever wanted him to live with me at 21 years)
Because there are only 2 options (or 3): either he lives from the electricity and food of the parents and can continue to be boiled and shopping and gives an amount for this service. Or he does all these expenses himself and then, of course, also pays for eating themselves.
Or Option 3: Exit
In addition, you could justify it with dme omission of child money. You used to use that for his surroundings. Now you don’t get it anymore because he’s learned. Now he has to pay it from his own pocket.
You don’t have to explain.
The time you’re a provider is over. If your child wants to live with your services, it must be involved in the costs.
What service do you offer for the cost. Living room, electricity, internet, services for laundry services (reservation of value), cleaning, postal services, with the use of general services such as waste disposal, waste water and also fresh water for personal care and hygiene. Electricity, gas, heating and other charges.
No housing law.
Why?
Because your child is no longer a child and has to learn to deal with money, it finally wants to pull out and then has to get right.
Take out the costs (movements, electricity, water, shopping etc) and divide them by the people in the household, then your child knows how much it costs.
If your child doesn’t want to give money, show him (if possible) the consequences, e.g.: don’t wash his laundry anymore, don’t buy it anymore, don’t cook for him/her, etc. And put it in front of the door.
I’ve already done that with the calculation of the costs. Therefore the 230€. Think that’s okay because my child goes shopping himself.
If no deeds or consequences follow, the child will not pay anything, for if it comes through.
Because food costs money and all members of the family contribute to the common income.
Why?
Because living and living are not free.
Whom Costume doesn’t fit, he can try to get his own apartment cheaper
You open all costs and reserves, then he pays his part