Bezugspersonen im Alter meiner Eltern kennenlernen?
Guten Abend,
Da ich ein schlechtes Verhältnis zu meinen Eltern und auch kaum noch Kontakt zu ihnen habe, habe ich (25Jahre) das Bedürfnis nach Bindungen zu Personen in dem Alter (zwischen 50 und 60Jahren). Ich sehne mich danach, Vorbilder in dem Alter zu haben, mir Ratschläge einzuholen, sich auszutauschen, Dinge unternehmen etc. Keinerlei finanzielle Interessen.
Eltern von Freunden kommen für mich eher nicht in Frage, da die Konstellation für mich einfach komisch ist…
Auf der Internetseite zu Wahlverwandtschaften habe ich in meiner Gegend keinen Erfolg gehabt.
Habt ihr Ideen, wie ich Menschen kennelernen kann? Gibt es überhaupt Menschen in dem Alter, die Kontakt zu einer jüngeren Person suchen, weil sie evtl selbst keine Kinder haben o.ä.? Es geht um keine sexuellen oder finanziellen Interessen.
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You may not like to hear it, but I would try to improve your contact and relationship with your parents.
Both sides don’t want that. Unfortunately, don’t go in any case…Don’t have a good childhood, and there were several incidents that are simply unforgivable and I don’t want to go into this.
This is, of course, very sad, perhaps in the relationship Uncle/Tante to which you can keep contact?
I wish you a lot of success and all the best for you.
I have a very small family. No uncles and aunts, not cousions, cousins. Grandparents live very far away, so I have no tie to them. In addition, they are quite old and not loadable. That’s why I’m looking for contact options to get to know people of age. I could also imagine getting to know someone regardless of my family I’m getting to know. Maybe I find someone with the tips of answers
Yeah, sure. Maybe about clubs, hobbies, volunteers or something. Try it over next toan.de .
Good luck
First you can look around in your relationship. Aunts, uncles and parents’ cousins would be options. If you want to learn something or join a community, do it and try to elder your mentors/leaders of the community. This could be a singing teacher or the chair of a religious community.
Another possibility is that you parente the parents of very close friends you see as siblings.