Beobachtet ihr eure Kinder, wenn ihr sie zum Kindergarten oder Schule bringt?
Zum Beispiel von außen oder durch den Zaun, dass nichts passiert weil es kann den Kindern immer was passieren. Ich finde es unverantwortlich von den Eltern, wenn sie ihre Kinder absetzen und dann nach Hause fahren.
No, not for monitoring. Just to see our son behave. And only one, two times.
Sure, something can always happen, but that’s rather unlikely. And in the areas you are monitoring, the children are already well supervised.
#Helpkins 🙄
I have no children myself. but we should be more or less alone at school than children. In the beginning it was still so that either my parents or the parents of my best friend brought us to the bus stop, but these were really just the first days or weeks.
Lg, Nicki
Weia… my kids have been going to school alone since the first class and so far they have come home again and again, the helicopters have always been allowed to stay outside and have not been allowed to leave the gate with the behavior, these parents make much more problems than someone who sends his child alone or gets on the way again.
No. In the Kita it is a direct transfer of the child to the educators, the child is not unobserved. At school only at first. The school route is going out together before going alone and you can walk on your own for the first time. But with us in the neighborhood running the kids usually two or three and then without a watchout and that I find all right
At some point, you have to let the kids do, or are you going with them when they’re 18 on parties?
Sure and not forgetting the first date would otherwise be irresponsible to let the full-year child go away with a strange person ;P
No, why? We were brought to kindergarten and that was it. We could run the primary school. My parents would have shown us the bird if we wanted to be taken by the car. It was built in 1750 and, in my knowledge, the children have always been able to cross the streets easily at the traffic lights. At the real school, my mother took two buses with me and two bikes. After that, I’m on my own.
and to the alleged irresponsibility: with us two children died in a car accident at another school because the mothers did not let the children run. Do you want to wipe your child with 16?
Our kindergarten child is taken up by an educator, and even if it wants in alone, you wait until it is in. A school child can be delivered at the entrance of the schoolyard, and from the 2nd grade it goes to school alone? They’re supposed to be a little independent.
We just walked in the village on the second day of school. That would have been very embarrassing if the mothers brought us.
Could my youngest have said lol
10 minutes if children are not distracted. We came once 20 minutes (started 20 minutes before school), because one of the frosty spider webs found so great.
And that’s why I didn’t get caught when both children said they would like to go to school from day 2 on their own, far they don’t need the big to go to school just 10 minutes on foot and the other goes by bus.
But my parents let us do – and that was good too. How children become self-confident
However, such paths can also be common *gg* With us the boys have always stopped because there is a pasture with horses and they had to look at them very accurately during the way to school. 😀
Kindergarten was obliged to leave and pick up the children. In the primary school it sometimes took us longer until we are home, but everyone came over short or long. Partially up to 1 std for ten minutes away, but there was the baker, the tank and not to forget the fire department. You always had to watch it, and on the sports field you had to catch playing.
Gabs with us in the city but also, I am always alone to the kindergarten and then back home again and that was at the end of the 80’s beginning of the 90’s. Personally, I didn’t think it was wrong, while our kids were always lying at the distance, and they were both coming to school from the beginning alone and, as I said, they always came home.
So did we. Without such experiences, the children are not really self-employed
This related to my son 😄
He made more than clear on the 2nd day that he does not want to be brought by Mutti. 😂
All the children from the village went alone. If your mother or your father accompany you, you probably did something.
How to observe? I’ll take my little daughter to the kindergarten and leave her there. What else to see here? I trust the educators because I’m not a helicopter mom, you can also exaggerate….
You seem to have a lot of time when you can still watch your children, care for your parents.
How do you finance your life?
Interesting. I find it irresponsible for parents if they don’t even trust their children to master the school path alone.