Because of an opinion, someone was deleted from the group on Facebook and allowed back into the group?
There's a group on Facebook called Parents for Parents. I asked a question there and several group members were very supportive.
Everyone commented on my post, some well, some less well.
A group member ridiculed me. Okay, I didn't pay much attention to him, but then a woman came to my defense, and then when an admin also supported the ridiculing sentence, she defended me and asked why an admin would support derogatory and insulting statements… Then she was deleted from the group, banned from the group because she spoke the truth.
I'd like to write to the other admin because I think it's unfair that she was simply deleted from the group for expressing her honest opinion. Admins are allowed to express their own opinions, of course, but giving preference to sarcastic and derogatory responses from other group members is, in my opinion, also supporting bullying. Can anyone help me write a text and file a complaint? I think it's no small matter; it's unfair. The deleted woman should be added back in.
I copyed from ChatGPT:(does not know if you can start it)
Here is a suggestion for a polite but certain text that you could send to the admin of the group:
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Subject: Request for clarification and re-establishment of a group member
love [name of admin],
I hope you can take the time to read my message. I appreciate the “parents for parents” group and the support that many of us experience here. But there is a matter that lies with me and which I would like to address.
Recently there was an incident in the group where a member who defended me and commented on an inappropriate comment was removed from the group. The data subject only expressed her honest opinion on a reviewing comment by another member and was in favour of fairness. For me, it seemed that her opinion, which was actually based on protection and respect, was not appreciated, but on the contrary, led to her removal from the group.
I understand that sometimes there are difficult situations in such forums and admins bear great responsibility. But I would ask you to reconsider the decision. In my opinion, it would only be fair to resume the group member concerned, as their comments were neither offensive nor inappropriate, but rather pleaded for respect and peaceful coexistence.
I would like to stress that this is not only a small thing, but a matter of fairness. I hope you can examine this matter and find a just solution for all those involved.
Thank you for your time and understanding.
Greetings,
[Your name]
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This text is respectfully formulated, but also emphasises the importance of the situation. He calls for the preservation of fairness without having to be challenged or aggressive.
Perfect thanks to your help, it is back in the group. I thank you very much for a very good text and thank you very much