Moving out at 20 because your parents are mentally abusing you and hitting you?
Hello ,
I'm 20 years old. My parents beat me a lot as a child. It stopped when I was 16, but now, at 20, it's started again.
My parents want to control me and don't allow me to live my life the way I want. They also tell me that I'm worthless without them and would never be able to stand on my own feet.
I'm afraid to take this step, but I have to cut off contact and move now. I need an apartment very quickly so I can get out of here quickly. A one-room apartment would be perfectly sufficient. I work as a part-time jobber and don't earn that much, but I can change my contract right away so I get more hours. If necessary, I'll look for another job.
Now the question is what can I do, where can I get help with the move so that I can get out of my parents' apartment as quickly as possible.
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Watch that you get out of this environment very quickly!!!!
Surely you have colleagues who might help you with a move. They may also know someone who would help.
There are social storehouses that donate used furniture and dishes, etc. to little money. You could also receive monthly grants from the city.
Explore, listen, because your parents don’t let you become independent! You may get help and advice in the company!
I’ll push you the thumbs and wish you a lot of success!
If you have a job, if you can pay the rent, you can also take off.
Maybe a WG apartment or a 1 room apartment (are cheapest).
Luxury doesn’t get that at the beginning, but it doesn’t have to.
Furniture can be gradually searched for used in classifieds.
As soon as you earn so much money that it’s enough for rent, electricity and food, you can take off at any time.
Turn to Youth Office and Jobcenter.
You get help with moving from friends. There will hardly be any other help, because you as an adult are responsible for it.
With regard to this, you can show them for bodily injury