Argument with stepfather?
Hello, let me explain the situation:
I'm 17, my mum has been married to my stepdad for a year. I can say that I don't like my stepdad but I don't hate me, I don't like him because he shouts at me over the smallest things or when I've made a mistake. I mean everyone makes mistakes but he complains and tells me my mistakes a thousand times which annoys me. My stepdad didn't have a good childhood, he was beaten, but my mum had the same childhood and she is much nicer. When he shouts at me I try not to cry and I imagine having my own apartment because I don't have a happy life right now other than with friends. I don't know what to do, today it happened like this: I cooked something and left it on the stove (in the pan), he complained at me and shouted, then I went into my room (I almost cried). The problem is my real dad is also an asshole but he doesn't yell at me, I'm glad, but that's not the stepfather I wanted :((
what should I do?
I would otherwise have two plans if there are further disputes
- Friend(s) who live with him
- move in with my dad (my biological dad) (my grandma is there too, which is great)
can you help me
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Open your mouth and SPEAK! Talk to your mother first, and then see what happens. Yes, it's not okay for him to yell at you. But be careful not to do the things that make him angry. That will definitely make things more relaxed.
How does your mother react when he yells at you? Does she help you?
If you think it's better to live with your father, then move. Which of your parents has the right to determine your place of residence? If your mother has the right, she has to agree, or your father has to submit the application.
I wish you the best of luck.