Are relationships with borderliners a waste of time?
Somehow these people are often toxic…unless you like emotionally unstable girls
Somehow these people are often toxic…unless you like emotionally unstable girls
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No, my friend is the most beautiful person I know. She also has BPS and has never been toxic at any time, rather the opposite… nice, charming, communicative, ready to compromise, sensitive and so much more…She is never toxic, leaves even more freedom than some other women out there and is genuinely caring and lovable.
So definitely No, I love her for her. This should be done to every human being, the disease is only a secondary factor that is to be tackled together 🙂
The questioning alone is already formulated in an evaluation and shows your attitude.
Why do you even ask if you answer any of those who do not fit you, try to refute? What is this?
To tell you that Borderline does not automatically make a person toxic and non-relationship will probably not bring anything.
Of course there are (as with people without borderline), but therefore not everyone with borderline is automatically toxic.
Even you can believe what you want. But transferring your experience to all people with this disease and spreading willingly stigma is not a beautiful move.
Jaja suddenly nobody wants to be toxic with a serious personality disorder. Just as little as I would give a chance to a sociopath or psychopath like Narzissten, I would also limit borderliner. I don’t care how hard her trauma is.
It’s about not every toxic IST. I do not deny that the BPS framework can also come to it.
You may have your opinion. But you do not have to discriminate directly all affected and deliberately spread stigma.
Especially from a position of ignorance.
According to your own statement, you are hard depressed, do not have any interest in social contacts and come?
Beg your pardon? Absolute.
Do you have double morals? Definitely.
Not loved? More than 100%.
You yourself are the reason why some people with mental illnesses are stamped as toxic. And as you formalize, I’d say that you’re part of your “Höu toxic Borderliner”.
Respect others. Peace calibre
Hahaha is a small part, maybe not toxic.
Depends on how it is pronounced how to deal with, etc.
But mentally ill people are just mentally ill people and not normal healthy people. And it’s not just the disease itself. Her whole self- and world-view, her mental structure was significantly influenced by it.
Being together with those who have such problems and pretending that everything is normal will not work in most cases. Especially at a young age if you hardly understand yourself. You have to learn to get clear.
My sister has Borderline. Why would she be toxic? People who have Borderline can not maintain relationships well have often to be abandoned. If you really love the person then you can at least imagine what she is going through and help her.
Yes ask yourself what it is that they cannot maintain relationships. Says everything.
Your question and answer already tell us why all of you distance yourself
If you notice that you yourself or the other person isn’t the right person then it’s just that. But discriminating people because they have a mental disorder, that’s disgusting.
How many people did you have to do the Borderline? I know my sister, I know how her psyche works. Sue was previously hurt by friends and well-known, so she cannot really maintain relationships. Be friends or partners. She tells me that she’s scared people leave her just because she’s herself. Yes she has ift mood swings, yes she is sometimes angry. But every person of the Borderline has to condemn because you have bad experiences, is as if you were condemning wheelchair users because they are not as fast as you run.
Tell me about your experiences, who hurt you?
Ne Borderlins are simply toxic. You’ll be able to confirm.
There are also male Borderliners. I diagnosed this personality disorder last year.
My condolences bro.
Thank you. But I don’t think that’s so bad.
Finger away, from such people, speak from experience.
no
She’s right.
Can you report your experience? If interesting 🙂