Arbeitskollege hat Spaß ernst genommen, was tun?
Also der Arbeitskollege und ich verstehen uns eigentlich sehr gut…
Hab Ihn vor 2-3 Wochen aus Spaß mal Flachpfeife genannt und er hat sich das zu Herzen genommen, ich hab das aber nicht ernst gemeint, sondern wie immer aus Spaß halt gesagt.
Gestern waren Personalgespräche und er hat das dem Chef erzählt dies und das …
Dachte eigentlich wir sind gut, was soll ich jetzt tun?
Werde mich natürlich dafür entschuldigen, aber verstehe nicht wieso man nicht zuerst mit mir reden kann…
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All right.
Excuse me, explain that this was meant in the fun and tell him what a relationship you see with him.
If he doesn’t look or remains stubborn, it makes more sense to build professional distance. Too bad, but it’s like that.
good advice
ask him to have a brief conversation with the boss and apologize to him. You should be serious. You insulted him why he should talk to you about it before. Of course you just said it for fun, but that was clearly going to the back. Probably you didn’t play together in the sandbox that such confidential spits are attached. I’d probably also be eating if a colleague calls me so publicly before others
That’s what he has to do. My best colleague suddenly came out of the holiday with a full bar (like me). After I had recovered from the salmon cramp, I invited him to google once, after Pictures of dogs who tried to bite a prickly pig. Something here:
I’m sorry, at least, because this insult obviously hit him very much. That’s what he’s talking about when he talks to staff.