Appropriate to go into the mourning room?
Trigger warning: This post discusses topics such as suicide and mental health. Please be careful if you're uncomfortable with this.
Hello everyone,
At my school, someone in the ninth grade committed suicide over the weekend. So, a bereavement room was set up two rooms next to our classroom. Since we're naturally curious as to who that was, we toyed with the idea of going into the bereavement room, hoping to find a picture of him there. Would it seem disrespectful if a few boys from the seventh grade went into the bereavement room? Or would it be appropriate?
Why not? Somehow you have to know who it was, whether you knew him and others.
It is also necessary to learn how to deal with death, free death and sadness. There are many reasons to visit the mourning room.
I’m sure you’re aware that you’re visiting the room with respect.
It would be appropriate to ask teachers or pupils who killed himself.
The mourning room should first be available to those who knew him.
If you want to look in later, to satisfy your curiosity, okay, but please just if you don’t mind a mourning…
Ding is, the teachers told us they can’t say anything. We already have more information, but still don’t know. All pupils say something else. But thank you for your answer!
The idea of going into the room is not funny. After all, you want to know what exactly happened and who that was…
Ui, this offers possibilities for self-reflexion!
Why don’t you even want to respectfully deal with her after the death of the person? If you have answered this individually, the desire for the curiosity is guaranteed to be distorted.
You just want to go in there out of curiosity! That’s totally inappropriate! It is a mourning room and not suitable to satisfy your curiosity.