Afraid of the future?

Question

Hey,

I'm 18 years old and currently training to be a social work assistant. I'll probably drop out of this training, as it's not working for me at all. Instead, I've been offered a place at a business school, where I can continue my education for three more years.

I've been so scared since last night. What if I don't find anything that suits me after this either?

Maybe some people feel the same way? I feel so alone right now, and it gives me a terrible stomachache.

monalisa557 · Answer

I've been grunting for over 10 years what I want to do for a job. No success. But sitting around is not. You just do some kind of job of money in the cash register until you find something that suits you.

okey162 · Answer

I always think the fate of a person has been determined.

Therefore it is irrelevant to think about its future.

I don't mean that you just sit down and wait for destiny, because you have to work a little bit.

rrs2005 · Answer

I will definitely do that. Just fear that these years won't help me:/

He had already thought about training as a medical specialist and then worked in the delivery room area in the hospital. But everyone advises me because you just don't deserve so much.

okey162 · Answer

You shouldn't listen to others what you should do you should make your own decisions and take responsibility for it

shining29 · Answer

So having a perspective with 18 is really bad.

You haven't got your Abitur, do I suppose? Why are you breaking them off last year if you can go through this?

I'd be dealing with a lot of areas in your place. Do internships. Do online tests. Write up your professional interests and possibly ask an AI what professions exist with these interests.

But to force yourself to school – believe me, Abitur is very hard and that is much worse than training. You won't have time for anything. So you should be aware of what a great pressure it brings