Abtreiben wegen Freund?
Stellt euch mal vor ihr erfahrt das ihr schwanger seid, sagt es euern Freund der reagiert geschockt (obwohl man ja nicht verhütet hat DA die Frau einen Kinderwunsch hat) meint das man total unreif iat, man dann mega eingeschränkt ist und auch eine neue Wohnung brauch. Er hat da natürluch schon recht 😁
Komischerweise drängelt er mich jetzt zur Abtreibung obwohl ich vorher gesagt hab wir versuchen schwanger zu werden??
Er hat schon 2 Kinder auch der 1 Beziehung (muss nur Unrerhalt zahlen für 1), aber mal ehrlich. Das sind doch nicht meine ich will ein eigenes…
Würdet ihr da abtreiben für ihn??
Ich fühle mich schlecht bei dem gedanken mein Baby abzutreiben, also behalte ich es natürlich 😊
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If he pushes you now, although clearly communicated it was to be done, then leave it.
Otherwise, for example, an accident, I would have just kept saying that the child can’t do anything for his behavior and see if you get the relationship saved or yet separation, but that’s what I’d guess.
My behavior is not at all and is immature, not yours.
And yes, children cost money and use space, but with two children he would have had to consider it before sex without prevention.
it is your body, your decision. Don’t let anyone talk or influence you, you’ll regret it later. Talk to your friend and if he doesn’t accept it, stop, but don’t rub your baby off for him. All good for you
Wow, as if he didn’t know how children are born. I ate those guys. What did he expect if he sleeps with you without prevention?
The child keeps you from shooting the guy in the wind or taking care of the problem by yourself OR whether he is thinking of a better one then stands on another sheet of paper.
The thing is stop I think the men nowadays still think the prevention is just a woman’s thing…why the women always suffer to pump chemistry or get what to use….but a vasectomy is addressed the poor fertility of the man 😅
Well, I wouldn’t have done that. But if he had condoms he did not find such doll 😅
Some men yes, not all. Especially among younger specimens, there is a very terrible macho company (now called it Alpha), which is highly questionable. In addition, the great lack of education…
Well, as long as it is openly communicated that there is no contraception, you have to expect that children are born.
Sounds to me like you wanted the kid, but he didn’t. It’s not clear to me why he let himself in for sex without prevention and then reacts like that when it comes to pregnancy, but good. If he doesn’t want the child, but you do, I’d keep it and separate me.
It was apparently thematized before, and it seemed to have agreed with the child’s request before…. otherwise it would have been prevented. Whether one separates or was perhaps only the first shock at the time, then may result in the course of the process.
It’s a bad number, if it’s even agreed. Did he maybe have a vasectomy that went wrong and wanted to put you in the allegation he wanted a child?
I really don’t have a problem with evacuation, I’ve already done it myself, but you really shouldn’t let it get crowded.
I don’t know about a vasectomy. I think he wants to hold me. He said in a few years it might be better to imagine tzz I’m 24 and he’s 35. How long will he wait until he’s an Opi? And I have to confess I don’t feel like getting pregnant with 30 for the first time is too late
What does not fit for me is that he now makes a rebellion, but has not previously prevented the knowledge that you definitely want a child.
Don’t let anyone in there, that’s all your choice!
I’d never run away.
Is the guy himself guilty
Keep the baby
Will I also come what my baby wants to be more important to be honest 🙈 could not live with it
I also thought about the producer
Hello, when did he say that? Did something happen that suddenly makes him panic? Do you have an idea? If he’s any more sweet and helpful. That he’s thinking about the apartment is also typical man. He wants to take care of you and be a good dad. Could it be more like that, and he’s just not so clear about it?
How do you feel about pregnancy? When do you have the next appointment with the female doctor? You’ll see a lot more in the ultrasound. All love and strength to you!
Because the one got married and then he doesn’t have to steal anymore is the problem of the husband.
Mm strange I’m the bad one now? ☺️
“how a character can change”
Don’t be stupid. He already has two children and pays only for one maintenance (why only for one?) and you apparently didn’t insist on a really clear commitment, but created facts where he was playing time and luck.
Your joy of damage is read out from every line. So 100% fair is your attitude to him neither.
Virallem I met him as a loving, helpful, friendly man how a character can change
But something like that. I am m, but 🤷🏽
“Do you want to run away for him?”
No. If I were to run away, then out of my will or a common DECISION.
I’m sure it’s not his pressure.
Exactly. What else does he want?
Yes I thought it was bad I mean if we can’t prevent me from getting pregnant every month… he thought it was funny if he already had children.
I am now in the 7 week 😊
Well, I don’t know how open you communicated.
Honestly, I have a bit of the impression that you’ve done it even without his explicit consent to get pregnant. Sure, he should’ve been obstructed if you told him that you want a child and don’t prevent it. I still think it’s a little unwise to just let it get on that.
But good, you obviously wanted a child and apparently also found a really negligent-dumb and now it is.
I just hope you’re going through well with the child – doesn’t sound like he’s really “father material”.
Good luck!
He knew all that before. Then he shouldn’t have been sleeping with you.
But mature enough for sex? Please, what is this attitude?
Never listen to such people!
But look for help, for example at KALEB or something. Hearing a child alone is difficult.
Then I don’t understand the question.
I asked for the opinion of you how you would do it because it intressed me
Okay, since you’re determined, I don’t see
Make sense to deal with it.
Wait, you don’t stop because you want a child and now he wonders you’re pregnant?
Evtl did it behind his back. Just wait for an answer from her.
Actually, not because I talked to him about it he meant he was ready. Besides, he’s never got a thought to prevent it. He said when it happens, it’s gonna happen. And I had a child’s desire before the relationship, and that’s why I wonder about the reaction, but thanks to the women are always supposed to be guilty of all..
Then he’s his own fault and he’s supposed to live with it. Don’t take it off if you don’t want it