Hey ich bin Laura16officail ich bin 16 Jahre alt und bin von Zuhause abgehauen ( aus Gründen die ich hier Nicht erwähnen Möchte da sie zu Privat Sind) Werde seit 4 Tagen Gesucht von der Polizei wisst Ihr was ich machen soll? ( bitte keine Antworten wie geh nach Hause die Finden dich eh oder So) Danke im voraus für die Hilfe liebe Grüße..
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Ich, weiß, dass das vermutlich etwas länger wird, allerdings muss ich mir mal einiges von der Seele schreiben, vielen Dank an jeden, der sich die Zeit zum Durchlesen nimmt. Kurz zum Hintergrund meiner Situation: Als Kind hatte ich große Probleme mit Schlafstörungen und Panik und Übelkeit in ungewohnten und fremden Situationen. Das ganz gipfelte dann…
Was wäre wenn eine Schule ganz plötzlich geschlossen wird. Was passiert mit den ganzen Material dort, mit den Schülern und Lehrern. Wo kommen die dann alle hin?
Heut hab ich an der Eingangstür (von außen) was seltsames bemerkt und ich glaube dass das Spinneneier sind. Ich weiß nicht wirklich was ich jetzt tun soll und wie bekommt man das denn möglichst sicher weg? Hat jemand mal ähnliche Erfahrungen gemacht ??
Meine Mutter ist nicht so das türkische Girls, was heißt mit so Düften oder so brauch ich nicht ankommen. aber mir fällt nichts besonderes ein was ich ihr schenken kann. habt ihr eine Idee? Bitte nur ärmliche antworten
Hallo, Meine Frage schwanger und noch im Bereich abtreiben zu können. So der Vater des Kindes würde gern das es nicht zur Geburt des Kindes kommt. Weil er überfordert ist und vor 1 Jahr erst Vater geworden ist. Ich versteh seine Sorgen und Ängste aber hab selber Bedenken wenn es darum geht das ungeborene Leben…
Hi, Laura, you acted perfectly right. You saved yourself from a toxic situation.
Now is the question where can you go?
Is there in your life a person who loves you unconditionally and whom you can trust blindly? Grandma, aunt.. pretty best friend/friend?
If there should be someone contact this person immediately. She’ll help you and protect you.
Or look for a reference person fighting for the rights and protection of children.
e.g. Carsten Stahl https://www.camp-stahl.de/
or VDSIS https://www.vdsis.de/
Maybe there are so-called “children’s houses” in your city. Here are usually very well trained warm-hearted caregivers who can give you help on all questions.
Call the police and tell them you’re okay and there’s no suicide risk. You’ll report back as soon as you find a solution to your problems.
And now good luck – head up – you can do this – stay strong
This is a “great building” and the parents seem right to be afraid.
This “steel” would be the last one I would recommend.
I honestly don’t understand why you’re acting like that…
Instead of going to the youth office and getting professional help right away to get away from home.
It doesn’t matter to you. Nobody forces you to stay home. You can go somewhere else, but with help, support and support. That’s what you need. I don’t think you want to live alone on the street.
You can simply go to the police station and tell everything and insist that the youth office is switched on immediately and the situation is resolved immediately. Or you’re going to the youth office.
But given the time, the police would be best.
Hey, I know I’m late, but!
If you have any problems, I can help you!
In Germany there are paragraphs 8a! You can call the 110 and provide care. YOU’RE GOING IN OBHUT!
In larger cities like Frankfurt am Main, and Hamburg, as well as Berlin there are children and youth protection phone there you can also call!
The police will experientially send a strip of car, take you to the guard, your parents informing you that’s good, and bring you in custody. The care name address, your parents usually don’t know.
Tell the police to call (110) in the patrol car and on the guard, as well as the care of Nahme, what’s going on! THE IS GANZ IMPORTANT!
Z.b. I will be beaten, abused etc!
You stay in the custody until a solution is found! You won’t be sent back to your parents!
If you were to mention why you went away, more concrete tips could be given to you.
Sometimes there is misleading or unexistent communication or it is much worse – such as abuse.
Should the latter be:
http://www.wildwasser.de
zartbitter.de
Don’t go home. The fact that we are re-entered by weeping parents and then everything becomes good does not have to be reality.
In the most unfavorable case, you won’t get pocket money anymore, the cell phone picked up and the key too, so you won’t get back. Your parents don’t have a shock to stress with the police and the youth office and not to pay a bunch of money for youth assistance.
Google to youth emergency service in the county or town where you are right now.
You can usually just show up 24/7 and come down first.
It should be better than on the street.
The police will then inform you that you are there and don’t look for you anymore.
From there you can see how it goes on, whether you want to go back after a short break and talks with your parents, or whether you want to be taken by the Youth Office Inobhut and get into a group or youth WG.
As long as this is clear, you can usually stay with the youth emergency service.
I don’t want to go home anymore
You can say that.
Then you will look for a supervised WG space or a group of apartments for you.
Everything is better than living on the street with 16.
Don’t say that too loud, otherwise you’ll be right in the childhood and youth psychiatry and blame you and your behavior for not working at home
Then you’ll never know how many great moments life still keeps ready for you.
Time at the moment may be difficult, but it can look quite different in a few weeks.
Why don’t you go to the youth emergency service first, or call it before.
Here you can find the phone number and address for Berlin:
https://www.berlin.de/notdienst-kindenschutz/jugendnotdienst/
Actually, I don’t want to live
Go home, only there can problems be solved. they don’t just disappear.
Much like talking about it, you’re anonymous here. how else can you be given advice
Some parents are the problem.
It sounds so stupid, but you have to face the conflict at some point. I also think that the Youth Office is the best point of contact.
You can live a maximum of one or two months outside without getting sick. I suggest you turn to the youth office, tell them what’s going on, not as you did here, but all the details. The more details you tell them, the better. And you should tell them if you come back to your parents’ house, then you’ll run away. Then you can’t get there anymore.
Alternatively, a group of people, a collection family or a temporary children’s home would be. Then exactly what the problem is and it will then try to help you.
It’s never a good solution. You’re already being searched by the police, probably sleeping outside, the money will go out for you in the foreseeable time. It is a relief at the first moment, but it is not a solution after a short time. Why don’t you go to your competent youth office and ask for assistance. Then you can take care of your future outside your probably difficult family circumstances.
With 16 you are no longer a child
you’re youthful. What is your reference to my answer?
If icb was a child I wouldn’t be here you don’t have to react to my answer if you’re annoyed go where andres then
Okay, I’ll finish this right here. You are obviously still a child who gives a comment that has no connection to my answer and then becomes jacky and unharmed in demand. But that doesn’t even notice, it doesn’t claim to attack anyone.
I don’t touch anyone I convince my strength I mean with 16 you’re not a child anymore
I don’t question that, I don’t understand your attacks!
You are not a child anymore point quite simply I don’t discuss it about you have 16 right as an adult and if you can’t respect it then bad luck but I think you must be in bed my child
Go to the Youth Office
You could go to the women’s house if something’s free.
The FS would have to go to the police.
The addresses of the women’s houses are not freely accessible for reasons.
Minors without mother’s accompaniment are not included there
Can you tell me where you are now?
What is the reason for your escape? These are things that can be solved, but you have to give us something.
On the road
You live on the street?
There are shelters in every major city.
No one can actually help you with the chunks you’re going to throw us.
Now. Please.
At some point, you’ll look back and be proud that you made it.
The couple of hours I’ll make
It’ll be better, I promise.
You can’t go deeper. You can be helped.
Go to the shelter and explain your problem to them. They’ll help you.
Because I don’t want to live anymore
Why do you think that?
I can’t help you anymore
How exactly do you imagine?
You can help you at any time, even through the youth office. But you have to articulate what your problems are.
Only one thing I can tell you: life on the street will make you unhappy in the long term.
I’d rather stay here
Well, what do you expect from us for answers? You will be found sooner or later. So you only hesitate to go out. It’s best to contact the youth office.
What are you doing now?
You’re a minor and the police are looking for you. You won’t be left to go home or report to the police to waste even more resources for you. Do you have any idea what a stake?
Running away does not solve problems. You’ll have noticed that by now.
what should the police look for them is adult and can decide themselves and yes run away solve problems very well
Would you like it if I tickled your feet every morning and that all the time?
Go home