Secretly filmed during sex?
Today, like many times before, I was talking to my boyfriend. Our phones are always lying around somewhere in case we change the music or check the time or something.
Anyway, he suddenly had only one hand on me and picked up his cell phone. At first, I wasn't sure if that was really it, but then he briefly placed it on my back. (So he was behind me…).
He briefly turned on the flash on his phone, but unintentionally.
I'm not sure now whether he really just looked at the clock (for quite a long time and music was playing on my phone) and then accidentally looked at the flashlight or whether he secretly filmed it for a short while.
I have my fingerprint on his phone and was on it for a minute because I wanted to Google something (so he knew that). I took a picture of myself so he'd have one on his phone that he could find later and enjoy. I opened his gallery to look at it, and he immediately took the phone and told me not to go into his gallery because there are unpleasant pictures of him.
He had already asked if we wanted to record something like that, but I declined.
I trust him and love him, but I'm unsure.
(We are both minors)
So what you’re talking about, it looks real to me like he did a photo or video. I can’t! You better talk to him directly and make sure you don’t want to.
Besides, I find it strange that he doesn’t trust you with his phone (gallery). I’d feel like he’d hide something.
If you were to talk to him, I would recommend doing this in person and prepare you a little bit for what you want to say.
Stand to your opinion and don’t let you get under before you’re sure everything’s okay for you. You’re right!
I know his whole gallery, otherwise he’s very open.
I don’t want to address him directly, can be good that he’s innocent, I wouldn’t trust him.
Sometimes people are better valued than they are. Just if you can see his gallery, I’d hack, but I can understand if you don’t want to directly touch it.
Take your time, gather your thoughts and then decide how you feel most comfortable.
I personally would nevertheless recommend talking about it because I would rather have the truth as ignorance.
probably your feeling doesn’t deceive you. Take his phone and clear the picture. Talk to him and get you safe.
“I trust him” and “but not sure” contradicts himself completely.
Of course I don’t know if he did or not. But you should talk to him and let him know you wouldn’t forgive such a breach of trust. That should give him thought. That’s all you can do.
I don’t think so. In principle, you can sense your partner’s trust and yet some uncertainty in certain situations. Communication is there for that.
I don’t want to address this directly. It’s good he just clicked. I don’t know
I think he picked up something, take his händy while he sleeps or talk openly to him. That’s really nich okay with a mistake anyone can see what you want, you have to talk urgently as long as he has to admit anything to it, no young keeps longer lean.
You wouldn’t ask him that.
And most of the time the abdominal feeling is true.
Besides, what kind of person is looking seriously, if he’s just behind or if he’s generally short on the clock?
Don’t let his phone lie next to you when you’ve been there.
Explain to him your fears and tell him he must show you the gallery.
If there are nude pictures of you on it that you didn’t want to do, delete everything and consider if the guy is the right one for you.
We look sometimes at the clock because I live with my mother and that was a time when she just puts my silence into bed and she likes to say good night again.
And cell phone is always there because of the music, sometimes you flip a song or adjust the volume.
I don’t want to address him directly, maybe he’s totally innocent
If he were innocent he could show you his cell phone
Jaaaa then has your answer sowiso .
If anything else was okay and then suddenly didn’t…just tell me enough.
He always does. I know his gallery. I didn’t touch him, but I just made a joke that I’ve seen everything about him.
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