What would you do…?
Hello dear community.
I have a pretty big problem in my family right now and I need your advice.
About 5 days ago, a woman came to us and revealed something to my mother.
My father allegedly had an affair with her and this affair resulted in a 3-year-old daughter.
My mother wants a divorce. My father is completely shocked; he's barely saying anything.
How should I deal with this? My father was always my role model! He helped me with relationships, he helped me with every argument! He was, and to some extent still is, my hero!
I'm so unsure if all this is true…
But my question is: how should I deal with him now? I don't want to ignore him… but talking to him now is completely different.
And how should I deal with my mother? She just makes accusations, complains, and well, it's not my fault 😭…
Thanks in advance for your advice… and please no stupid answers. I'm serious and really want advice 😓
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This is really a very difficult situation. The first possibility would of course be a paternity test. And never judge anyone in a hurry. No matter what he may have done, he is your father who loves you. Lg
It’s best to treat both of you as before. The whole thing is their thing and not yours. For you, it’s still your parents who love you. Their partnership is their problem, which they will somehow solve.
Right now it’s a shock for both. They have to settle for themselves how they will handle it.
Yeah, that’s kind of true, but it affects me too…. if I have a sister right now… I wouldn’t get clear with it… I’ve always been a single child… how am I supposed to handle it? A sister who’s only from my dad. Not from my mom… it just hurts like that
Well, even adults are not mistake-free.
Your father surely loves you just like before.