Is this still normal for my mother?
Hello,
I am 14 years old and have a younger 12 year old brother. He is in 7th grade and ever since he started school my mum ALWAYS studies when there is something written. For example, he has a math test on Friday. Since yesterday they have been studying non-stop in the afternoon. That may not sound bad, but today she wanted to cook something in the evening and isn't doing it because she still has to study 🙄. It doesn't matter anymore. She goes through my brother's homework and quizzes him for the next day. When there is a school test soon, they are constantly studying. If she doesn't understand something, my little brother has to explain it to her. She writes out exercises, etc. My brother is less independent than a small child. My mum is the nicest person I know. Really! But when it comes to studying she is unbearable. It's not like that with me, she doesn't follow my lead at all. She always says I can do it anyway, but she has to fight with my brother to ensure he doesn't get a C on our report card for math, for example. A C isn't that bad. She also has zero confidence in him. Even though my grades are better than his now, that's completely exaggerated.
What do you all mean?
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It’s hard to judge for someone who isn’t there.
The wrong one is gone.
If he didn’t understand anything, he should ask the teacher at school and not his mother.
Your mother wants to help him and support him is understandable but to judge according to the text she exaggerates something.
Do you have any contact with your mother’s neighbor or girlfriend, and could you ask for help?
Maybe it helps if a familiar person gives her a hint that something is no longer in the lead.
It’s probably not going to help me guess or haven’t you tried it yet?
I’m sorry.
Do you have any contact with your mother’s neighbor or girlfriend, and could you ask for help? Sometimes you just need an opinion from someone who is not in the family.Quasi an observer from outside. Other possibilities are more likely I fear…
No, I don’t think so normal anymore. But it is also much more sensible that you can divide yx3 by 2b instead of knowing how to flatten a bread.
I think your mom has a problem with what your brother can do for his spare time.
Ask Mother why she learns so extremely with him and mention that there are other important things.
So if he doesn’t have a serious learning disability now, it sounds very strange.
Normally, parents are more concerned about this by the way.
Well, you learn to cook Chef.de helps.
I’ve already asked her why she learns so much. And she says he writes a good note, or she says because he can’t. Because they always learn until he doesn’t make a single mistake. Especially the bad thing is that my brother doesn’t mind
Well, if your brother likes that, it’s useful somewhere.
But you should remind her that you’re still there and you need your mother from time to time.