Why do people feel uncomfortable when given physical support?
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Every person wants to be independent as possible and not dependent on help.
He wants to be independent of other people.
Accepting help means giving up weaknesses and nobody wants to.
It does not agree with independence.
Now to your question:
I don't think it was the reason because you helped him? He didn't get any longer 😉
He just didn't want to play and didn't react. He just went because he was too silly.
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Many people feel uncomfortable with physical support because personal limits can be exceeded. Everyone has his own idea of ​​how close other people are allowed to come to him, and if that doesn't happen in agreement, it can quickly seem unpleasant. The feeling of weakness also plays a role. Accepting support, especially physical, can strengthen the feeling that you are not independent or will depend on others. For some, it's hard to accept.
In addition, shame or uncertainty can cause someone to take care of. There is fear of being perceived weak or not acting independently enough. Physical contact also requires a certain degree of trust and confidentiality. If this level of trust is not given, it often leads to discomfort.
What do you think of this context?: I cracked my brooding in standing by standing behind his back and bending back to me, and I said he was longer (big) but he didn't answer me. Why? You think this could be the bark? Thank you.
In this context, your brother could have felt uncomfortable, either physically through the sudden movement or emotionally, because he was surprised or found the situation unpleasant. If someone is put into an uninhabited position without warning, the irritation or discomfort can trigger even if it is not painful. In addition, some people do not immediately know how to react to physical interactions, which could explain why he did not respond. It could also be that he felt the statement about the "growth" as a joke and therefore did not respond to it.
In summary, his silence could simply be related to the surprise or uneasy by the unexpected physical interaction.
Thank you… my brother shows himself athletic and even superbody-free and he doesn't think it's bad that I am, but I just…
So first of all, I'd be very careful with this dripping. You should only do that when you get it shown. Especially the right arm handle is important.
If your brother gets involved, he will at least once help, which is important.
There is already a problem here with help. Many say "I don't need it" (no matter what form of support it is).
and even those who accept the help do not have to feel comfortable. It is often related to the feeling that it is "not to create alone".
And there's a little nausea there. You just think about body care in older people. Of course, this is not necessarily great.
Perhaps because it again impressively shows that they are not capable or restricted to something
Thank you. What do you think about someone who has the same gender as you and you give physical support quite often or tells you that you have become longer: (if he/she is your family member) I would be happy with an answer.
What do you mean longer?
That's not bad. Maybe he was somewhere else with his thoughts and he was hard to find the right words because he himself didn't know how to react to them. I believe, according to your statement, everything is exactly where before and it has no effect
No. I cracked my brother standing in and said he had gone longer (great) but he didn't answer me.
I don't know. Are you really bigger? If so, it's a statement. If it's not true, I'd think that's kind of weird. But either way I would interpret nothing negative in
Oh, sorry. That's what I mean, for example, when an older family member says you've become bigger than he cracked you in the back. Or that was just one example. I did it to my younger brother and he didn't answer it.
This does not have to be the case in principle. People feel uncomfortable in this context, especially when they are unquestioned. That's overriding. And that applies to any kind of help.
You're coming too close.
You should accept privacy.
What do you think of this context?: I cracked my brooding in standing by standing behind his back and bending back to me, and I said he was longer (big) but he didn't answer me. Why? You think this could be the bark? Thank you.
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