Taking into care?
My 6 year old child told school that her dad put cream on my intimate area. The youth welfare office was then contacted. There was a home visit, then a conversation with the youth welfare office where they said she had to go to the physiotherapist. After 60 minutes we went home again and everything was OK, as was the case at another appointment where the doctor only asked me questions. Then there was another appointment and I had to leave the child there or it would be picked up from home. Since then there has been no contact with the child. Partner gone, child gone but no measures have been taken to bring her back. It has only been a few days so far, but how do I get the child back and what else do I have to do and what happens afterwards.
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You'll be told that. You should have heard if it's important to you. You can ask the authority.
They didn't say
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Your whole text is very confusing.
Ask that at the youth office.
If you want helpful answers, you should describe and write correctly. Here everything is very misleading…besides no point,Comma,…
Who is the father? You or the child?
Did the father abuse the child, or is that just a misunderstanding?
Where your child is and what you should do, you were told. You should be careful when the child is important to you.
Go to the youth office.
The child made a statement at school that could be an indication of sexual abuse.
The fact that the youth office is involved and that the child is presented to a psychological specialist service sounds to me for the first time a good approach. Thus, the child has a conversation offer in a protected context. That a conversation with you as a mother takes place in order to find out your domestic situation and possible child's vulnerabilities, also sounds conclusive to me. The child should be effectively protected with your help if there is an actual risk.
I don't understand the rest of the text. Why is the child gone, why is the partner gone?
First of all, contact the Youth Office and signal that you have a great interest in clarifying the matter and working with them.
What about the child's father? Does he live in your household? Could you, in the worst case, make sure he stays away from the child? What does he say?
No contact with him since pregnancy
If he has no contact with the child, who could the child have crumbled?
A 6-year-old doesn't think that way!
You said he was never alone with the child? Who was with him all the time when the child was there?
I mean, she obviously doesn't believe her child and she's stamping it as a liar.
What behavior? it is not even clear to the whole hostwarr who is in what relation to each other, or whoever was where.
It's not about the kid telling Papa to your ex.
It's about you wrote that your dad would have cremated the girl.
It's obvious that everyone thinks of the child's biological father.
If you've been walking around at the youth office, they've got a great impression of you!
Children don't say anything to strangers. that is raised by you and forced. The right child-father will hopefully take care of the child in the future. Hopefully you will be drawn to account for your behavior in court.
What strange the child has grown up 4 years with the man and had asked him himself if it may say Papa
What kind of mother do you think you believe your ex more than your child? Especially since this is about the suspicion of child abuse! This is the worst thing you can do to a child!
I find your behavior extremely shocking! If the child has actually lied in the past, there has been something wrong very early, which is certainly not the child's fault. You should think about that.
You don't believe your child when it says this is pathetic and I'm very glad that the youth office has intervened. Hopefully the girl comes to a family where she has a happy childhood.
why does the child call a foreign dad? what else goes wrong with you?
Having already done all partners means not growers in my opinion child was 2.5 years when I met the partner and were 4 years a couple
Of course, the child is questioned. It's 6!
As I said, go to the youth office, answer the questions and tell what you saw.
It is not written that it is the producer
Write in whole sentences, thank you.
I don't understand. You don't say contact with the father since pregnancy. Now it's your name again when he was with the child, what now? Partner, father.?? I want you to explain correctly.
It's not going to help you.
Go to the youth office as soon as possible and cooperate if your child is important to you.
I do not find the only child was questioned and not the suspected perpetrator.
Then you should make sure that goes against your ex-partner and not against the child's father.
Children can think so much. But a 6 year old will not invent this (personal and professional experience). Very good that the youth office did. They know what they're doing.
My ex-partner
I was always present
the deposits you have to fulfill, has told you the youth welfare office. a child in that age doesn't think so. what has happened to your partner