Father has become strange, what should I do?
My father has become a bit stricter in the last few months and starts screaming and freaking out over the smallest things.
Like yesterday, for example, I was talking about how I was looking forward to being an adult and having my own place. So I asked my mum how it was for her when she first moved out. She talked about it and also told me that she had moved into an apartment with her very first boyfriend. My dad got really angry then and yelled at me, saying that I always bring up topics like that on purpose, even though it wasn't the case. Just now he chased me through the house because I said I had a stomach ache and he said to me: if you don't go to school tomorrow, I'll go there and tell you that you're playing truant.
And somehow my father is being dragged along by his friends, and he's becoming like that, too. I've noticed. Because every time he's on the phone with his friends, he gets really irritable.
And he's also pushing me into his religion a bit, even though he knows I'm not yet a believer. (My parents have two different religions, so I don't have any festivals, actually.)
Is this normal?
My mother also finds it really annoying that he is like this now.
If he has changed from being, from being, he will probably be dissatisfied (with whatever).
Maybe he’s got grief, worries, problems, difficulties… you don’t know anything about.
Perhaps he is under the influence of his friends (also Muslims, I suppose).
Maybe you’re trying to push him because he’s married to a woman from another culture and doesn’t lead the *professional life of a Muslim*…
But that’s just speculation, but can be possible because you say that he’s so aggro after phone calls with his friends…
There will probably be a connection 🤷 ♀️
Focus on your career, do not choose themes at the table that can lead to discontent with your father. If you want to learn details from your mother’s life, your father should not be present.
Hey.
with me, that’s very different… my father isn’t shaking about my mother’s previous friends… we often sit at the dining table and I ask her and all laugh… That with religion is rather different to that my father (actually his parents) are against all religions and I shall not say to my confimation… But I have just made contact with those when they have even more merry because I was vegetarian (with now flexiganer(almost vegan)) in any case this is not normal with your father… sorry that I have distracted and told about me 😅 I’m sorry
Best regards Tilli
Yeah, it’s a pity he’s got. I don’t know why
maybe his friends put him under pressure to educate you Muslimly and so