What should I do if he keeps saying I have the better parents?
Hello!
My husband constantly argues with me about how I have the better parents. His parents simply abandoned him during our pregnancy because they couldn't handle our arguing. He constantly talks about how badly his parents treat him. And sometimes he gets aggressive when I talk to him.
My parents constantly confiscated my passport against my will, even though I'm an Austrian citizen. They lied to me, using various excuses, to go to China and lock me up in a psychiatric hospital there. When they realized I had every right, as an Austrian citizen, they constantly tried to persuade me to voluntarily surrender my passport.
He doesn't understand any of this and claims my parents are there for me. At least they call and talk to me.
I'd love to run away, but he doesn't understand. Every time I try to talk to him, he tells me I'm cheating on him and that I'm af***, a***.
My parents want to force me to go to China with them again.
I'm scared. My son is here with you in your household. I'm afraid something will happen to my son. He's still a child.
They're also considering shipping him to China, but they want to live off the welfare system in Austria themselves. But they don't want to grant him that. My son is scared. He doesn't play anymore. He also eats very little. My husband has absolutely no understanding for this.
He's doing well here. And as long as nothing happens, everything's fine, but what do I do if it happens? I've had to constantly explain to my child that what's his own means what's his own. He can dispose of it. Without interruption. Sometimes he doesn't even understand that anymore.
My husband still doesn't care about anything. I can't talk to him. When I need help, he completely abandons me.
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I would recommend that you contact the Frauenberatung:
https://www.frauenberatung.gv.at/
They can also keep you on the ground.
What you need is, on the one hand, support, on the other hand, but also encouragement that you are not alone and that things are not wrong even if others think that you need to talk about it.
You are here and you have your rights, one of these rights is a carefree life, without pressure or similar.
China is such a separate subject, I know that China sees a lot different and that there are also many who still see it abroad.
But you are, that means you have to go your own way.
Turn to the advice, on the page you will find a phone number where you can sign your situation.
The rest is up to you.
I'm sure it's child abduction in Austria. At the latest, when they're there, the police will be in front of the door.
Of course I shouldn't get that far.
Why? Are you still alive with your mother and your son? Or why is he there? If you don't see that you can get him away.
I can only give you the same advice as animeartemis. Women's advice. or if not to man is a woman's house. There will certainly be something in Austria.
You should see that you're getting your life kind of on the line and start living your own life.
Disconnect with your husband… dismiss contact with your parents… you can't guess anymore.
Let yourself be advised what you can use for help if you live alone.
Who has custody and why is your child living with your parents? Usually they can't bring your child to another country against your will.