Kind hört uns beim sex?
Hallo zusammen, wir haben da ein kleines Problem. Mein Partner und ich haben gern und regelmäßig Sex. Zuhause geben wir uns natürlich Mühe nicht zu laut zu sein und verlegen unsere Schäferstunden auf die frühe Nacht, wo die Kinder eigentlich schlafen sollten. Sogar Musik lassen wir schon laufen.
Nun beschwert sich die 17 jährige immer wieder, daß sie uns hört, das ekelig findet und wir respektlos ihnen gegenüber sind.
Ich habe meine Kinder immer sehr offen erzogen. Und wie schon gesagt, wir sind zuhause aus Rücksicht auf die Kinder nicht laut.
Allerdings hab ich ihr auch gesagt, das ich nicht auf mein Sexleben verzichten werde.
Wie seht ihr das oder wie sollen wir reagieren?
Können uns ja nicht jedesmal ein Zimmer nehmen 😅
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Can understand both sides. On the one hand, it can be really very disturbing for the children, on the other hand they can so be glad that your parents are still doing so well.
Maybe buy the kids Oropax or something if you really can’t be quieter. Otherwise you can see that at least the bed is less squeaking, etc. or a little later in the night.
Even if we’re three at night…. Madame always means to be awake
I see. Waiting for her okay when she goes to sleep is, of course, so bad, I wouldn’t want to sleep
Yeah, because it’s about it. What else should I have asked?
What a nonsense
I don’t just put them, I’m thinking
No, but you mention your child in connection with your sexual activities!
Madame is in no way a mere position
And you seem to be one of the picture book muttis or do I see it wrong?
Okay, yeah, right
Well, it’s more like sex thing.
Hm, if I thought so, I would not write “Madame” personally
Don’t think you’ll expose your child to this!
Don’t find it so bad now, but understand your point
But not before a community!
Oh, that’s right if you just get a little excited about the child or something
Calling his child Madame is bad.
so you should think about something
first you should explain to your children that it is a small problem and you are trying to find a solution to it
express sympathy and acknowledge the problem, but reasonably declare that the children should not blow up the problem from mosquito to elephant
Instead of saying like the last Assis, “Ey I bumse like I want and don’t let me forbid” according to the motto. What’s wrong with you unraveled ravens?
One way can be, for example, dazzling or e.g. a sexroom in the cellar. Intimacy is an important issue. However, a solution so needs some time.
So just ask the kids what would be better for them, for example: to live without parents in the orphanage or sometimes to the same volume?
It is best to tell you that it is so unpleasant, but you don’t have a 100% solution right now.
Hmmm, so like the last assis, we certainly don’t talk to the kids. The possibility to set up a sex room does not seem to have everyone and moaning around until we can no longer do. Three of the four kids are supposed to hear nothing, only the daughter means to make a big one up with 17.
Yeah, that’s with some age.
It can already be perceived in the phase as a particularly “sealing, annoying”.
Under certain circumstances, there’s something introverted from the personality.
Then it is extremely unpleasant for you.
I would react relaxed and praise improvement. It’s fun, but consideration is going on.
As I said, we are all but noisy, even make us music to surprise that a little
I don’t care
I think that the child will have to live that his parents are asexual beings.
but: wo, if you complain about sons from the children’s room!