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Kyeira240
1 year ago

Keep quiet, I can feel you.

My first daughter was a shrine, we were with the doctor, osteo etc and nothing has helped. You missed nothing.

The first important step is to accept that the situation is simple and that you can’t change it right now. You and the child’s dad have to stick together and master this very exhausting time together.
I poked my little one, which she had at least calmed down something, which was for her the hell. We stayed with her only in one room for a long time and had meditation music or womb sounds run.

You were simply gone too many impressions, even if you just went to another room. You had to increase slowly.

Body contact was the absolute must for them.

I put my headphones on to keep the nerves and got something running (music, audiobook, series etc) but of course I always got the little ones.

My second (6months) is an absolute sunshine as long as you have it.

So I’m running around with her in the carry the most time of the day. It makes a lot more difficult to cook like household, etc but rather it is good to her and she is content than she yells at me all day and she feels uncomfortable.

Monschi79
1 year ago

Just keep quiet. That’s normal. Your little worm was in you for nine months, had body contact, had been swung around…why should he want this to be different now?

It is also a natural instinct. This little being depends in everything on you. Nature tells him when I’m gone from my mother, my father, I’ll die.

Leave him alone. Wear him in a stretch, in a cloth. Change with your husband. Do as little as possible to take care of you in your child.

I have twins and spent almost the first months alternately with my husband lying with both of us.

sassenach4u
1 year ago

You should go to the osteopath with her. Pay attention to one or question whether he can also treat babies.

It can be a shrine child because nerves are trapped by the birth, swirl etc.

They helped my grandchildren great, one was a star-gucker and the other was a screaming child.

Ille1811
1 year ago

Hello!

My youngest grandchild was a supporter for longer than a year! Both my daughter and I had them in the towel for hours. The Papa, friends and ide older siblings also wore it quite the same. Nobody felt that burden.

With another grandchild, it was more exhausting. Even though it was worn, it often cried for hours without the doctor, midwife or we could recognize the reason. Even the child has developed well because it was never left alone with his pain.

Rendric
1 year ago

they do not lie down;-)

During the day, a carrying or a carrying towel is great. She can sleep, enjoy close body contact and you can do all your work.

kiniro
1 year ago

Baby in the towel and then can also make your “ach soo important” household.

Regina3
1 year ago

I guess that’s what you have to do. Look for a good, stress-resistant babysitter, just walk 1 hour without a baby.

kiniro
1 year ago
Reply to  Regina3

Better: Let household be household, baby go to the towel and walk.

SirFragesteller
1 year ago

Keep them with you? Gives carrying bags.

SirFragesteller
1 year ago
Reply to  Pau381

Then take it with you until she calms down. In the first months, closeness and donation is very important to strengthen the urtrust. If she gets older you can let her mug a few minutes.